Wilma Jeane (Wheeler) Charnes

Wilma Jeane (Wheeler) Charnes, a beacon of strength and independence, was born in Seymour, Indiana, on June 20, 1954. On November 21, 2024, she embarked on her final journey from St. Vincent, Indianapolis, leaving behind a legacy as vibrant and unforgettable as the lasagna and blackberry cobbler she so joyfully crafted in her kitchen.

Wilma was a woman of undeniable character, strong-willed and fiercely independent, marching to the beat of her own drum and ever clear in her opinions. She was a true matriarch, a "boss" in every sense of the word, and her family and friends knew they could always count on her honesty, which was as refreshing as it was steadfast. Her words had weight, and she navigated life with a certainty that inspired those around her.

A member of Cornerstone Church in Seymour, Indiana, Wilma found solace and community in her faith, which served as a foundation in her life. Her love of animals brought her joy, particularly her cherished dogs. It was in the comfort of their companionship that she found many peaceful moments to reflect on life and engage in her hobbies, such as knitting while enjoying the antics of her favorite game shows.

Wilma's familial bonds were strong, surrounded by the love of her daughter, Kristy Betz and her husband William of Medora, Indiana. She leaves behind a close-knit group of sisters in Dorothy Underwood of Vallonia, Indiana; Edna Holz of Bedford, Indiana; Anita Smith of Seymour, Indiana; Billie Marshall of Salem, Indiana; Vera Bevilheimer of Franklin, North Carolina; and Virginia Perez of Parsons, Kansas. She also took deep pride in her seven grandchildren and six great-grandchildren, who filled her heart with joy and laughter.

While her life was filled with love and triumph, it was not without its sorrow. Wilma was preceded in death by her beloved husband Richard Charnes, with whom she shared 36 treasured years, and the heartache of losing her daughter Debra Betz. She was also preceded by her father, John Wheeler; her mother, Mary Hicks Darkis; her brother, John Wheeler; and her sister, Carolyn Day. Within her heart, she carried the memories of her grandson Zachary Childers and great-grandson Hudson Hanson, whose absence she felt deeply.

As we remember Wilma, we celebrate a life richly lived, a spirit fiercely unyielding, and a heart forever welcoming. Her echoes will resound through the kitchens where lasagna is served and across the warm gatherings under the watchful eyes of her beloved family. Forever remembered, she leaves us not just in sadness but also in gratitude for the days we had with her, the lessons she taught us, and the love she so freely gave.

The family has chosen cremation and a celebration of life will be held at a later date.

Daniel and Betsy Christensen have been entrusted with the arrangements.